Danica Zomer, Csw-pip
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
October is a month that welcomes the spooky and the scary. Many people watch their favorite horror films and use decorations that transform their homes, workplaces, and yard into something that might provoke even a small fear response from others. If we dig a little deeper at fear, we can go beyond the physical things that cause a fear response (spiders, heights, darkness), and find relational fears. As humans, we are relational beings, we are made for connection. So, it makes sense that some of our greatest fears would relate to the absence of connection with others; fear of losing someone we love, fear of being misunderstood/ judged, fear of being alone.